Last night, I had the honour of co-hosting 250 people at a special community screening of the documentary Embrace. It was a truly magical event. All of us came together to share the positive energy in the room and to soak in Taryn’s message of body acceptance.
250 is a big number – but it would be wonderful if the message could spread out to reach a wider audience. And the good news is that EMBRACE is now available to watch on Netflix and to download on iTunes – so you can gather up your family and friends and watch the movie in the privacy of your own home!
I had the privilege of opening the evening with a personal story and I thought I’d share it with my readers:
For those of you who don’t know me – my name is Lori Wilson and I want to welcome you here tonight and thank you for supporting this event.
Before we get started, I want to share a little story:
A few months ago, I hopped out of the shower and I scooted into my bedroom with nothing on but a towel around my hair. My teenage daughter just happened to by lying on my bed watching TV and she turned to look at me. Her eyes scanned me up and down and her mouth fell open – “Oh my god mom!” she started.
I braced myself. How was she going to finish that sentence? Was she going to comment on my blubbery belly? Was she going to gag at my saggy butt or my dimply thighs (that definitely don’t have the obligatory gap between them). Was she going to use the dreaded f-word….FAT! I stood there totally vulnerable.
I steeled myself in the moment and waited for what was coming. My daughter said – “Oh my god mom! Your boobs are huge! I wonder if mine will be that big one day too?” And she turned back to her tv show.
I had to chuckle to myself. My boobs! She looked my body up and down and her only comment was on my boobs.
I realized two things in that moment. One – when my daughter looks at me – she isn’t seeing the glaringly imperfect person I’ve constructed in my own mind. She is seeing her mom – a woman with big boobs apparently.
And two- despite the fact that I am passionate about promoting healthy body image, I devour whatever reading I can get my hands on on the subject and I preach it to my kids – if I’m being perfectly honest, I am still deeply unhappy with my body. I catch myself hating how my pants fit or cringing when I pass a mirror. Or recoiling with horror when I go to take a picture with my iphone and the camera is pointed right at me!
And having talked with many of you – I know I’m not alone. I think I could comfortably speak for all of us in this room in saying we all know that we should be accepting, but we have a long way to go in making that shift happen.
That is why we wanted to share this film with you. We want to start that shift in our own mindsets and we want to support this shift happening for our friends, family members and all the females in our lives.
And though one movie might not fix the years of reprogramming that we likely need, it’s a great place to start.
Enjoy the film! Let’s Embrace!
*If you are interested in building upon a local EMBRACE community – email firstname.lastname@example.org to be added to our mailing list.
2 thoughts on “Embracing (and my big boobs)”
Hi Lori. So sorry I couldn’t make it yesterday but wanted to reach out and thank you for bringing such a vulnerable topic to your friends and the people of Burlington. Important! Love this post and appreciate your continued sharing of you stories and writing talents!
Ps. For a bottle of wine or Proseco… would you show me how to set up a blog sometime? You can pick if the bottle is closed or uncorked!!
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Thanks Diane! And yes I can help you for sure – you can always bribe me with Proseco ; )